If you give a girl a book,
she's going to finish reading it.
And chances are if she finishes reading that book, she's going to ask for another...and another.
This Thoughtful Thursday discussion was inspired by a very personal post from my good friend April over at
Sim~Sational~Books. (Oh, and
If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff. :D) You might know her from her awesome SIMS-based book trailers, but we connected because we both have five-year-old daughters who just recently started kindergarten this year.
Y'all, kindergarten is HARD. Like April said in her post, I remember when all we did in kindergarten was color or go to stations (like blocks or kitchen or something FUN) or play outside. But these days, kindergarten is like what first grade was for us.
Before they even start, they're supposed to already know their alphabet and how to count to twenty and all the stuff that we worked on
in kindergarten back in my day.
Something else they're working on already that we didn't even contemplate until first grade is
reading. Starting on October 1st -- after all of us parents were submitted to a
very brief intro to the program via a parent-teacher meeting -- the kindergarten classes at Katie's school began bringing home a purple folder with required reading books in them. Books that they apparently
aren't going to go over in class. I understand that parents need to be involved in their children's education, but isn't our job to help our kids
on top of what they're learning in class, not in lieu of what they're
not being taught?
I'm trying to garner an appreciation for reading in my little girl, and so far, it's been going great. There are some books we've read together so many times that she knows them by heart and
she reads them to
me now. But that also makes me worry that she's just memorizing things and not really comprehending them as she's reading. And there is a big difference between reading what you've already memorized and reading for comprehension. I try to get her to tell me what words are by pointing at them and not letting her read the sentence that they're in, just to see if she recognizes the word, and it's proving difficult for her.

As is the
homework that was sent home last night. She was given this list of words you see to the right, and only three of them were previous Word Wall Words, meaning she had only been taught those words in class. The others were foreign to her. And now
I'm supposed to teach them to her. I'm a terrible teacher. I was a great student, but I have never been able to pass that on to anyone else. I tried providing tutoring when I was in high school, and that didn't last long. I'm going to try some of my old studying methods for UIL Spelling with Katie: word pyramids, writing each word three times each, writing each letter of the word in a different color, etc. Just things that helped me remember, things that I hope will help her remember, too. Even if I do think it's too early for all of this. I mean, I get it...we want our children to be able to compete at the same level intellectually as children in other countries. We want our kids to have all of the best opportunities. But I still want my kid to enjoy her childhood. It only lasts so long, and then you're a grown-up with all kinds of responsibilities, wishing you could go back and be a kid again.

I want Katie to
want to read, to love going to the library or bookstore and trying to make up a haul as big as her mommy's. Soon enough, she'll be forced to read boring books that take all the fun out of reading. Honestly, though, in this respect, I'm glad I had a little girl; it does seem like a lot of boys tend to outgrow a love of reading much sooner than girls do, if it ever comes to that. But it's because they're forced to read stuff in these formative years that isn't fun, or at the very least, isn't presented in a fun way. I'm not saying school should always be fun or that the stodgy old classics should be done away with, but there are ways to make it interesting and make the learning experience fun and easier on everyone involved. And that's part of the reason that I hate this new reading program, or at least the fact that it's an
at-home program. My sister said she read a study that said at this age, the average kid reads approximately ten minutes in class, per day. Really? I'm okay with the twenty minutes they're supposed to spend reading at home...we did that every night anyway with her bedtime stories before she even started school. But if they're not even spending that long reading at school, why am I sending her there, besides the fact that I have to work and can't home school her? (
I so would if I could.)

Huh. I did not expect this post to get so ranty...I guess I'm a little more worked up than I thought. It's just that things have really changed since I was in school, and kindergarten is proving a lot more stressful than I imagined it to be. I'm so glad to have a friend like April who's going through the same stuff so we can vent to each other. We just want our girls to love reading as much as we do! No pressure, kids...but you know how awesome it is to have someone else to share your books with. I just want Katie to be the next in line to read all of mine. =) And so, I'll keep reading with her and working with her on those damn Word Wall Words and reading some more.
Oh, and I think frequent trips to the library and bookstore should help, right? ;0)
Tuesday, August 30, 2016
{TTT} Back to School Favorites
Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by the awesome ladies at The Broke and the Bookish. Apparently, they are overly fond of list-making and love to share their bookish lists with the rest of us book nerds. =) We're game.
This week's topic is a Back To School Freebie:
For this week's back-to-school freebie, I chose some contemporary novels that simply put me in the mind of going back to school, even if I've been out of school for much longer than I care to admit. From the first day at a new school, to studying abroad, to the first day of college, there's something here for everyone.
How did you incorporate back-to-school in your Top Ten Tuesday picks this week?
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Thoughtful Thursdays: If You Give a Girl a Book
If you give a girl a book,
This Thoughtful Thursday discussion was inspired by a very personal post from my good friend April over at Sim~Sational~Books. (Oh, and If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff. :D) You might know her from her awesome SIMS-based book trailers, but we connected because we both have five-year-old daughters who just recently started kindergarten this year.
Something else they're working on already that we didn't even contemplate until first grade is reading. Starting on October 1st -- after all of us parents were submitted to a very brief intro to the program via a parent-teacher meeting -- the kindergarten classes at Katie's school began bringing home a purple folder with required reading books in them. Books that they apparently aren't going to go over in class. I understand that parents need to be involved in their children's education, but isn't our job to help our kids on top of what they're learning in class, not in lieu of what they're not being taught?
I'm trying to garner an appreciation for reading in my little girl, and so far, it's been going great. There are some books we've read together so many times that she knows them by heart and she reads them to me now. But that also makes me worry that she's just memorizing things and not really comprehending them as she's reading. And there is a big difference between reading what you've already memorized and reading for comprehension. I try to get her to tell me what words are by pointing at them and not letting her read the sentence that they're in, just to see if she recognizes the word, and it's proving difficult for her.
Huh. I did not expect this post to get so ranty...I guess I'm a little more worked up than I thought. It's just that things have really changed since I was in school, and kindergarten is proving a lot more stressful than I imagined it to be. I'm so glad to have a friend like April who's going through the same stuff so we can vent to each other. We just want our girls to love reading as much as we do! No pressure, kids...but you know how awesome it is to have someone else to share your books with. I just want Katie to be the next in line to read all of mine. =) And so, I'll keep reading with her and working with her on those damn Word Wall Words and reading some more.
Oh, and I think frequent trips to the library and bookstore should help, right? ;0)
Friday, August 31, 2012
Back to the Books Giveaway Hop
For my stop on the Back to the Books Giveaway Hop, hosted by I Am A Reader, Not A Writer and Buried In Books, I'm featuring a book that is set during high school in keeping with the back-to-school theme. It is also being released as a feature film on September 21st and is an often challenged/banned book. I read this book for the first time last year and it really stuck with me. It's a coming of age story that really tugs at your heart-strings. Sounds cliche, I know, but it's true. You can check out my review here.
Here's what's up for grabs:
Author: Stephen Chbosky
Series: stand-alone
Publisher: MTV Books
Publication Date: August 14, 2012, originally published February 1, 1999
Purchase: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
the perks of being a wallflower is a story about what it’s like to travel that strange course through the uncharted territory of high school. the world of first dates, family dramas, and new friends. of sex, drugs, and the rocky horror picture show. of those wild and poignant roller-coaster days known as growing up.
Rules:
- US residents only, sorry, unless you can provide a US shipping address.
- One entry per household.
- All entries will be verified. Any entry found to be falsified will result in disqualification of all entries for that participant.
- Winner will be notified via email. Winner will then have 48 hours to respond before another winner will be selected.
- I am not responsible for lost packages.
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Now that you've entered here, be sure to check out all the rest of the stops on the Back to the Books Giveaway Hop:
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